August 29, 1999: The early morning our time alone together before our wedding and the small ceremony with family and close friends in Valebenedetta, Livorno in Italy. The Catholic ceremony and Korean tradition of after wedding ceremony: Pe Beck (Blessing time for new life together among direct family members)
I strongly believe in happy marriage. But there is something much more important beneath “Being married or Being together”. It’s “Living our Life together”. Creating our Life together. Sharing our Life together. Compromising our Life together. Healing our Life together. Making the Room for our Life together. Respecting each other’s individual Life together. Understanding 2 of us in One life together. Knowing how to Free the other half in One life together. Only “Being in Love” is not enough. Love is actually already given. The “Marriage Certificate” does not do it either. We both need and needed two deepest hearts and patience to contain the love, hate, pain, joy, envy, and anything else that can rise in any moment.
I cherish every moment with you Emi for last 17 years together and 11 years married to each other’s body and soul. I love you Emi. Happy Anniversary to us…..!